Tease Kiss:
Go to kiss your partner and kiss them lightly on their lips. Then kiss them more passionately and make them think you are going to slip your tongue in. Just when they take the bait, pull away slightly and look them in the eye with a sexy look. Repeat the process until they can't take it and give them the kiss they have wanted the whole time, but slowly.

On-Screen Kiss:
When you are watching a movie, kiss the same way the actors have kissed. It makes the whole scene come to life!!

The Lead Up Kiss:
Sit behind your lover kissing on their ear. After giving them a hint that you want a kiss, whisper into their ear. Ask them if they can taste your lips. Then slowly and sensually suck on their bottom or top lip. Then go for the passionate kiss.

The Pop Rock Kiss:
It is fun to slip in a bit of Pop Rocks into your mouth right before the kiss. When you French kiss there is definite chemistry...literally!

Silly Kiss:
The receiver puffs out one cheek and when the kisser gives a big kiss on the puffed out cheek, the receiver blows the air out, making a silly noise. Repeat for both cheeks. It is most effective when used together with butterfly and Eskimo kisses, also an appropriate kiss to give your love while in front of your parents!

Kiss By Kiss:
One of the best kisses is the one that proceeds at half the pace you want it to. Instead of kissing on the lips you kiss on the cheek. As you approach your lover's lips, kiss by kiss (and it should take a minute to get there) you should touch them, so that the kiss, when it arrives, is not the end of a prelude of kisses, but the start of a new sequence. And so on!

Down To Your Toes Kiss:
The best turn on is when your partner looks deeply and longingly into your eyes, then reaches their hands for your face, and takes it gently in both hands, and kisses you with a fire that shoots straight down to your toes!

Vampire Kiss:
Kiss him on the neck. Slowly start to bite him, or give him a passionate kiss that makes him ask for more. He'll love the feeling when you nibble on his neck.

The Lip Sucking Kiss:
After you've been kissing for at least 5 to 10 seconds, ever so slowly pull only about 1/2 an inch away from their lips. Then very gently (with moist lips) go back as if your going to kiss them and suck on their bottom lip instead. Pull away and go for their top lip all in a sensually slow motion! With this kiss you might end up doing more than just kissing, but it all depends how far you the couple want to take it!

The Make Up Kiss:
Do this kiss when you and your lover are mad at each other. Go to him/her , don't say a word, just undress him/her . Kiss him/her from head to " ... everywhere you want to ... " and just give him/her all the loving he/she needs.

1. Ice Kiss

Celebrate the first day of winter with an ice kiss. Put an ice cube in your mouth until your mouth becomes cold. Remove the cube, track down your love and plant a kiss that will send chills.

2. Toe Kiss

Prepare a foot bath for your love at the end of a long day. After the good soak, you towel dry his or her feet, give a massage and seal each toe with a kiss.

3. Pink Panther Kiss

Humming the Pink Panther theme, prowl toward your partner. On the high note, pounce and pucker. Suggestion: wear only pink!

4. Palm Kiss

Holding your love's face with your palms, smile and deliver a sweet kiss to his or her lips.

5. Strawberry Kiss

Hold a fresh, juicy strawberry between your lips. Beckon your love to kiss it away.

6. Noodle Kiss

Go out for a romantic Italian dinner. Make sure one of you orders something with long noodles. When the time is right, each take an end of a noodle and draw it to your mouths until your lips meet for a kiss.

7. Flinstone Kiss

Playfully decide to call each other Fred and Wilma today. After you kiss your love holler, "Yaba dada do!"

8. Instant Reply Kiss

After a great kiss, tell your love you want an instant reply.

9. The Three N's Kiss

Kiss your love on the naval, then the neck, and conclude with a cute nose kiss.

10. Earlobe Kiss

Sneak up on your love from behind and put your arms around his or her waist. Nibble on his or her earlobe.

11. Flower Kiss

Have a single flower for your love when he or she gets home. Present it while telling your love how very special he or she is. Finish with a loving kiss.

12. Scarf Kiss

Lasso your love with your scarf and round him or her up for a kiss.

13. Card Kiss

Mail a romantic card to your love and seal it with a kiss.

14. Hair Combing Kiss

Run your fingers through any and all hair on your love's head during a kiss.

15. The Three E's Kiss

Choose any order, but kiss each of your love's ears, eyes and elbows.

16. Full Moon Kiss

A full moon is very romantic. Take your love someplace where the two of you can smooch by moonlight.

17. Ice Cream Kiss

Share an ice cream cone with simultaneous licking. If tongue movements and closeness don't get the two of you kissing, think of how cold and wonderful your love's mouth tastes and go in for a smooch.

18. Coffee Kiss

Serve coffer to your love, then ask, "Will that be one kiss or two?"

19. Grape Kiss

Feed each other grapes. Put one between your lips and signal your love to come and get it.

20. Kiss A L'Orange

In conjunction with your fresh-squeezed morning orange juice, have two orange quarters cut. Each of you place an orange quarter in you mouth, peel side showing, and kiss.

21. Parking Kiss

With your love in your car, find a romantic place to park and neck.

22. Nail Kisses

Softly kiss each fingernail on your love's hand. If your love enjoyed it, continue down to the toenails.

23. Cookie Kiss

After your love has just each a freshly baked cookie, kiss him or her softly.

24. Tackle Kiss

Tackle and wrestle your love onto the couch or bed. When your love is pinned down, plant him or her a big ol' kiss.

25. Dessert Kiss

Find a place that serves your love's favorite dessert. During dessert, feed each other and agree to kiss between bites.

Lollipop Kiss

Take your partner and gently pull her close to you. Lick her bottom lip, and proceed to french kiss her. Then when she needs to take a breath, cause most girls and guys need a break anyways, grab her tongue ever so gently with your lips and run them over it.

Marco Polo Kiss

First one of you need to figure out who's marco and who's polo. Then you play the game like marco and polo. Except instead of just touching them, you have to embrace them in your arms and kiss him/her. It's great fun.

Dive Gear Kiss

While diving in a pool, one person wears a diving mask and the other person has to close their eyes and hold on to the mask-wearing person really close. Then trade the inhaling part of the dive gear. Take a deep breath and take the inhaler part away. Kiss the person wherever or however you like, then switch places. This should only be done with some one you truly trust would not hurt you.

You or your partner drink a very hot drink while the other drinks a very icy cold one and see if there's some steam. It's fun because if it doesn't work, just keep trying!

Who Lasts Longer Kiss

Sit very close to each other, your lips almost touching, arms where you please. Sit like this, very close, and see who can go the longest without kissing the other. It's great fun, because you can lose on purpose and still win!

Do What You Want Kiss

This is always fun. One of you just lies there, and the other does whatever he or she wants to give pleasure. Then, you switch roles. See who can give the most satisfying kiss, with the other not participating at all.

Pepper Kiss

Take a hot pepper and roll it on your lips then kiss your partner. It give the kiss a kick. (Note use peppers as hot as you or your partner can take, but not too hot or it will just burn and ruin the kiss.)

Lip Venom

Before you go to kiss your partner, apply lip venom to your lips when he isn't looking. Lip venom is a safe cosmetic item that you can buy at Scarlets and other cosmetic stores and what it does is it draws the blood to your lips, making them red and tingly. A little bit goes a very long way and can still be passed up until probably about a half an hour after applying. When your partner kisses you, he will have this sensual feeling running through his lips for the rest of the day

Marathon Kissing

See how long you can kiss for (try 5 - 10 minutes straight)

Candy Kiss

Use either a Jolly Rancher or some type of hard candy/mint. Either you or your partner place the candy in your/their mouth and then it is like a game of keep away. Whoever starts tries to keep the candy in their mouth while the other person tries to get it in theirs. But you can only use your tongue and lips. This can be very fun if you have the right partner!!! Enjoy.

Name Kiss

If u have run out of things to do with your tongue spell your name. This works very well and everyone likes
it!

Tongue Wars

Each person tries to get their tongue in the other persons mouth while they try to get their tongue in your mouth. Each person "blocks" the other persons tongue with theirs. The winner gets to pick the next type of kiss. This game is great for reliving first make-out tension.

Starburst Trick

Out a starburst in your mouth, and while French kissing try to unwrap it! Enjoy!

Ring Kiss

What you do is take a ring off your finger and put it on your tongue. Then while you and your partner are French kissing, he tries to slip it on the tip of his tongue! It is a lot of fun!

Tongue Tease

When you're French kissing, if/when you pull back, and before your mouths meet again, you can flick your tongue up and down quickly against the other person who is doing the same. It's very teasing and fun to see how long it lasts. Its hard to resist going strong after a while of flicking.

it OK to kiss on the first date?

I think it is OK to kiss on the first date. I wouldn't consider making out on the first date, but a good-bye kiss is nice.

How can I spice up my kissing?

I have some different kissing styles on my site.

My boyfriend has a long tongue and he sticks it all the way down my throat. What should I do?

Tell him honestly that you would prefer to be kissed with less tongue. That you enjoy the feel of the tip of the tongue. Otherwise, if you don't tell him how will he know? Tell him that you also want some variety and that you found some different types of kisses at my site and would like to try them out.

I feel like when I am kissing my boyfriend that I breathe too loud on his cheek. Is that normal?

Yes

I'm afraid to kiss my boyfriend because my nose is too big, and it might get in the way and that would be embarrassing. What should I do?

You shouldn't worry about it. Your nose won't get in the way because your heads will be slightly tilted so that the noses won't bump straight on. And even people who have small noses bump occasionally so don't sweat it. Just enjoy it!

I'm a teenager and I haven't been kissed. I have a little sister who is 12 and is already kissing. I am worried about her. Is that the right age to be kissing at?

I think that is pretty young to be kissing, but it seems that these days they're starting younger and younger. Don't compare your inexperience with your sister's experience. Everybody has their first experience at different ages in their lives. I've even had people in their 20's tell me they haven't kissed before. So you're not alone in thinking that you should have kissed by now. There is no age when you should be experiencing your first kiss. When you meet someone right for you who you really care about and who cares about you, that is when you should be having your first kiss. So don't worry. It will happen. And chances are your little sister isn't telling you the whole truth, either.

Kissing is probably the most physically romantic two people can get. There really is no wrong way to kiss. The thing to remember is that everybody kisses differently and different people prefer different ways of kissing. Some people, believe it or not, are appalled at the idea of French Kissing or using your tongue while you kiss. While others can't imagine kissing without using your tongue. The thing is to try kissing that person a few times before deciding how you and your partner prefer kissing and to get used to the way that person kisses.

A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations. The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations, such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip, then trying the other two types. And don't just leave kisses to the lips. Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids. This can be very seductive and romantic.

The perfect kiss is one that is done with someone you really care about. There is more caring and sincerity in a kiss with someone special than with someone you hardly know, although a really good kiss can certainly bring two people closer together.

A lot of people have been writing to us on how to overcome the fear of kissing someone. Our answer would be to not kiss that person right away. Wait until an attraction builds between the two of you and a romantic situation evolves. Go out with the person a couple of times before having that first kiss.

Basic Kissing Tips

Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.

Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly to one side. If you don't, don't worry about it. Your partner will still tilt their head slightly so your lips meet on a slight angle or they will kiss you straight on. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.

Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes. Kissing with your eyes open, looking into one another's eyes while you kiss, can be very erotic and some people find it quite enjoyable. You may want to try kissing this way once you're more comfortable kissing your partner.

Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.

Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.

Hands - There are many ways you can use your hands during a kiss. The most popular way is to put one hand on your partner's waist and the other one against the middle of their back. Other ways to use your hands are to cup your partner's face in your hands (very romantic!), put them around your partner's neck, put them around their waist, hold your partner's upper or lower arms gently, run your finger's through their hair, or just hold their hands in yours.

French Kissing

This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great French kiss.

Relax - You lips should be relaxed, you body should be relaxed, otherwise it will be like kissing a dead fish for the other person. There are only two things involved in a French kiss: your lips and your tongue. That's it!

Open Lips - Your lips should be slightly parted, not open wide like you're at the dentist. Open them just far enough, just like you are regularly breathing through your mouth.

Positioning - Do not have your face dead on to his/hers, otherwise your noses will touch. You want to move your head to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of theirs. If you think about it then, with your head tilted one way and his the other way, your mouths will not reach dead on. Your mouths will meet at the corner of the other's mouth. It will look like the below picture:

If you look closely at the picture, you will see that their noses will actually touch the cheek of the other person. Their lips have already touched. When you touch the other person's lips and you stretch your tongue out a bit, your mouths will instinctively open as much as the couple in the picture.

Tongue - Practice on your own if you'd like. Open your mouth enough (while you're by yourself of course!) just enough to stick a bit of your tongue out. It will go past your teeth. Don't stick your entire tongue out... just an inch or two. That is how far you should stick your tongue out in a kiss. So your tongue will go into their mouth and theirs will go into yours. When this happens, both of your tongues will touch. Then just circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of theirs. If they do something different (because you have to remember that everyone kisses differently so some may move their tongue around a bit differently) then just do the same as they do. They may flick their tongue over yours and you can do the same. Or they explore the inside of your mouth with their tongue, do the same thing! Or you can just lightly touch their tongue while they are exploring. The best thing is to NOT just leave your tongue doing nothing.

As for movement of the head, that is entirely up to you. Some people will move their heads very slightly in a small circular motion or figure eight. Sometimes they won't. Sometimes just one person moves their head and the other doesn't. It's totally up to you.

You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.

A great kiss that I learned is to start kissing along her neck to her ear in the middle of making out, then gently suck on her ear lobe, kiss the little area behind her earlobe, and gently blow into her ear. It's a great way to make your kiss even more intimate. But make sure you don't do it too often in one session, and don't stay there too long. The lips are the primary importance of kissing.

The best kiss ever!(for guys)

Lay her oh a bed,couch etc get ontop of her and make her feel safe then gently lick or peck her hot spots e.g neck, stummach, ear after that give her a sweet kiss on the lips(mouth closed) lift your head up and look her in the eyes and tell her something like "i love you!" softly and sweetly, after begin a slow processing of frech kissing, pick the pace up after a while and repeat kissing hot spots over and over, this will give you gil one thing to remember and soemthing never to forget. And hey if she lkes it that much maybe she'll do the same to you .

Turning a Man on

When you are lying down, slide your hand up your mans top, lightly roam your hand around his stomach, then move up to his chest.

GUY TIP

When your with your girlfriend and shes kissing your neck. Run your hands down her back, in a somewhat of a cirlce motion, if you want run your hands down her sides too, then place your hands in her back pockets (if she has some) that'll make her wanna get closer. or at least it made me wanna get closer to my guy.

Kissing for the first time at the movies

This tip is for experienced and new couples.
1) When you are sitting next to each other, lift up the arm rest (if you can), and rest your head on his/her sholder and wait for them to do the same

2)**girls
Place your hand on their chest and start to trace their coler bone, then their neck, then their jaw bone, then pull their chin in for the kiss

**guys
Pick up one of their hands, and start tracing their fingers, rist, arm, coler bone, jaw, then when you reach their lips, touch them lightly, then pull them in from under thechin for the kiss


This kiss can be a light peck, to a french kiss
to me, its very romantic

1st time kiss

When its time for your 1st kiss, you will be scared. the 1st kiss is always the best. but ne ways when you kiss slowly do so and then back out. then once she goes toward you again, rub your girls tounge withurs(she will love it). then u will want more than just a kiss.lol

A Good First Kiss...

This is a good one for a first kiss. Guys, wait for the right time, then lean in slowly, slowly, (to make sure she's okay with it), then lightly brush your lips over hers, then give her a really, really soft kiss. Then look into her eyes. She'll totally move in closer for another kiss!

Amazing kiss (never forget it)

To create a memory to last forever with the one you love, do what my bf did to me. we were sitting in his room, on his bed. he got up to his computer put a long song on and came and sat down with me. then he kissed me lightly twice and then we proceded to make out. he gentaly put both of his hands on my hips and forcebly but extremely gently laid me down on his bed. (as he did this we continued making out) he then leaned ontop of me and intensified the kiss. i had my arms around his neck while he had a hand around me and one not to far up my skirt. i was so turned on we madeout for about an hour and a half. then he got up and lifted me to my feet where he stood behind me kissing my neck softly. i then turned around to makeout with him then we danced softly swaying back and forth while making out. it was the most memorable day of my life

Alright this 1 is for girls, One day at school i was with this guy that i liked at the time and when it was time to go to class he tried to just give me a hug and leave(now that just wasn't cuttin it for me) so as he was starting to walk off i turned him around by his arm half aggresively and gently and said "you can't get away from me that easily" then i pulled him close to me grabbed him by the shirt then held on to his belt buckle and we had the most passtionate french kiss of both of our lives!!! We were both talking about how great it was for days

You just cant be scared if you want it go after it! If you are scared then it will never work for you the way you want it to.

There are three things you must do if you want boys to kiss you: dress right, smile and act friendly, and flirt. If you do these things, he'll feel an unconscious desire to kiss you!

Here's an example of how to get a guy to kiss you from the movie Bounce, starring Ben Affleck and Gwyneth Paltrow. Notice that she's dressed right (Well, you can't see all of her clothes in this shot, but take our word for it -- she is), and her hair is in a nice ponytail. The only problem is she wasn't smiling too much or flirting just before this kiss. It was almost like the Ben Affleck character felt sorry for her. You can see she still has a rather serious expression on her face as she's being kissed. To improve your chances of being kissed by the boy of your dreams, practice your smile and try to be in an upbeat, playful mood. Guys like girls who are fun to be with. Of course there are exceptions, and some rather artistic and intense guys like girls who are gothic, moody and nihilistic. If this is the type of guy you're after, then adjust your style to fit his. You might want to start carrying around a copy of his favorite book with you, just so that when you meet him you can pretend you're reading it. (This brilliant idea was sent in by Cindy from Spokane, a 15-year-old who said it worked to help her get to kiss her current boyfriend who was really into Harry Potter.) (Photo copyright 2000 by Miramax Films)

How to flirt Flirting involves saying nice things, teasing gently, or doing anything that shows your interest in someone. You can practice flirting by saying something cute to a store clerk, the mailman, or your bus driver -- whoever! Just tell him he's wearing a nice tie or that you like his shirt, or say anything nice that will make him smile. By practicing flirting you'll develop flirting confidence. Then when you see your secret crush, you can try a little flirting with him.

What can go wrong when i try to get a guy to kiss me?

What can go wrong is that he might think you're being too pushy or aggressive. But so what? If you don't try something, nothing's going to happen, so you really have nothing to lose. Besides, if you smile and act friendly and flirt just a little, he probably won't think you're too aggressive because you're doing it just a little bit.

What if i'm shy?

If you're shy, practice flirting to get over your shyness. If you're very shy because you inherited shyness (for example if your parents are also shy) then seek psychotherapy or counseling from your high school counselor. You can even practice flirting with your therapist or counselor.

You have seen it done often in the movies and probably on the street in darkened corners. The French kiss is a timeless and passionate gesture of romantic affection. Whether you live in Paris, France, or Paris, Texas, you can learn how to kiss like the French do without an embarrassing faux pas!



Steps

1. Moisten your lips. Dry lips do not move well together. Just a light brush of your tongue over your lips will be sufficient to moisten them. In general, use lip balm regularly- you never know when someone will go in for the smooch.




2.Angle your head. If your mouths meet dead-on, your noses will get in the way, and you will not be able to kiss deeply or smoothly. To avoid this, tilt your head slightly to one side. Make sure you do not both tilt your heads to the same side.








3.Close your eyes. As you approach for the kiss, look into your partner's eyes, but, once you are close to theirs, close your eyes. It can be a bit of a turnoff to be kissing and going cross-eyed. However, you don't need to always close your eyes; some people enjoy keeping their eyes open and seeing their partner when kissing.


4.Start with a gentle and soft closed-mouth kiss. The French kiss is an open-mouth kiss, but do not lunge in with your lips agape like you're going to eat them; instead, open your lips very slowly. If you were learning to speak French, you would probably start with the basics, vocabulary and grammar, before trying to write poetry. Well, the French kiss is like the poetry of kissing, and before you can be good at it, you have to master the closed-mouth kiss. Even after you have added French kissing to your romantic repertoire, it is usually better to start a kiss with closed lips.

5.Go Dutch on the decision to French. Kissing should be a shared decision. You need to have permission to French kiss someone, but when your lips are locked with theirs you may not want to stop and ask, "Hey, this is great, but can I put my tongue in your mouth?". Open your lips slowly and just a little during the kiss so that one of your lips is sandwiched between theirs and one of theirs is between yours. As you are locking and re-locking lips, brush your tongue against your partner's lips ever so slightly. This should make it clear that you want to French kiss. If your partner's tongue does not respond in like fashion or if they pull away, you will have to save the French kiss for another time when you are both ready.

6.Explore with your tongue. If you and your partner seem to be enjoying the open-mouth kiss, slowly try to open your mouth a little bit more and gently push your tongue a little farther into their mouth. The tongue is very sensitive, and the mere act of touching your partner's tongue with your own will be very pleasant and stimulating for each of you. Do not stick your tongue too far into the mouth, as this can be a big turn-off. Instead, just gently and playfully touch tongues. As a guy, when you are starting to french kiss, touch your tongue to hers very lightly.If she wants more, she will come and get it.

7. Go slow. Passionate kisses are good sometimes, but to really enjoy a French kiss, you must take it slow. Do not hurry and instead, take time to explore each other's mouths.

8. Breathe. If you’re kissing for an extended period, it’s easy to forget to breathe. Believe it or not, gasping and turning blue is not romantic. Take small breaths through your nose as you kiss. You do not forget how to breathe! As you and your partner grow comfortable with the kiss, you can try breathing through your mouth a little: sharing breaths as well can be romantic (but not everybody likes it).

9. Mix it up. Kisses are like snowflakes: no two are exactly the same. Once you finally feel comfortable French kissing someone, it is tempting to try to do the same thing every time. Add variety. Sometimes kiss deeper, for example, and other times pay more attention to the lips than the tongue. Hold the kiss longer or shorter and explore the art of kissing. When something feels good for each of you, do not abandon it for the sake of variety.

10.Use your hands. While you should keep your hands polite, especially on a first kiss, you don’t necessarily want them just dangling at your sides. Embrace your partner, cup his or her face very gently in your hands, or run your hands through his or her hair. Another turn on for the first kiss is to gently caress their shoulder while you kiss. It shows you are comfortable with him/her. Gently hold your partner's face with your hands on their cheeks and their neck, or wrap your arms around your partner in an embrace. The most important thing about using your hands is that you respect your partner's boundaries. Play with their ears or run your fingers through their hair, as this is very stimulating. The second most important thing (much less important than the first) is that your hands should do something. Don't just let them hang at your sides; it will seem like you're not into the kiss.

11.Read your partner's body language. Everybody kisses a little differently, and each person enjoys different things in a kiss - there is no "right" way to kiss. What separates good kissers from bad is an ability to read a partner's body language and be responsive to their partner. Of course if your partner pulls away or seems uncomfortable at any time, understand that you have to slow it down. Good kissing requires give-and-take, so read your partner’s body language and pay attention to clues (sighs or moans) that tell you you’re doing something he or she likes. Let your partner kiss you back, and move with him or her as long as you’re comfortable with what he or she is doing.Listen for cues that tell how much your partner is enjoying a particular kissing maneuver. If you hear a sigh or moan, or they begin kissing you back with increased intensity, realize that they are responding with fervor.



12. Develop your style. Good French kissing, like good kissing of any kind, requires practice. You will get better as you do it more. In addition, the more practice you have with one person, the more comfortable you will feel kissing them and developing a style that suits both of you.



13. Talk about it. A lot of people have difficulty talking about intimacy, but open communication is important to all parts of a relationship. If you really like the way your partner kisses you, let them know. If you don't like something, also let your partner know that, but approach it delicately and compliment them at the same time on something they did that you liked. Even if the kiss goes all wrong, it can still be an intimate affair if you can both laugh about it together!

Tips

* Freshen your breath. You never want to have bad breath when you are about to kiss someone, whether the kiss is a French kiss or not. Because your mouth will be open in a French kiss, fresh breath is especially important. Practice good dental hygiene. Carry mints with you if you think there is even so much as a hint of a chance you might kiss. Avoid foods that leave an unpleasant aftertaste or residue, particularly garlic, onions, milk, and corn.
* Teeth are a sensitive subject. You definitely do not want to bump teeth with each other. It is not only awkward, but can hurt as well. It might inevitably happen at times, so do not worry when it does. You may want to try rubbing the backs or fronts of the teeth of the other person with your tongue. This can create a ticklish feeling that might enhance your kiss. Not everyone enjoys having someones tongue rubbing on their teeth, and many do not like to touch teeth with their tongue.
* Not everybody likes to be kissed the same way, so while your former partner might have enjoyed one method of kissing, your new love might not. You need to learn to read signals and adapt to a style that's comfortable for each each of you. This works in reverse, too. Just because someone doesn't kiss you like you are used to does not mean they are a bad kisser. As long as you are comfortable with the kiss, try to be open-minded, as you just might like the new style.
* Be an active partner. If someone is French kissing you and you want them to do so, do not just sit there but get into the kiss.Reciprocate their actions, and alternate taking the lead on the movements of your tongues and lips. If you are uncomfortable with any part of the kiss, do not be afraid to pull away or gently close your lips. This will give your your partner the hint.
* There are no rules for how long you should hold a kiss. If you feel uncomfortable at any time, break the kiss; otherwise, just enjoy it until one or both of you slowly pull apart, usually together. It is extremely romantic to lightly suck your partner's upper or bottom lip as you part. You might find yourselves returning to kissing, after each of you takes a breath.


Warnings

* To some people a hard tongue is a turn-off. Keep tongue and lips soft and supple. Think of the pressure used to lick a soft service ice cream cone, no probing with a stiff tongue unless the other enjoys it. Use variations to mix it up, as well. Now go ahead and practice!
* You can still French kiss if one or both of you has braces, but you should be careful to prevent the braces from touching each other. Also avoid touching the braces with your tongue (you might accidentally cut it).
* Excessive saliva can build up during a French kiss, and that can interfere with the romantic moment. Swallow periodically without breaking the kiss. If you have trouble doing that, do not be afraid to pull away for a moment.
* If you ever feel uncomfortable or do not want to move forward with any move your partner is attempting, pull away and let your partner know that you want to stop. Be firm. It's OK to say no.
* Try not to bite the other persons tongue.
* Remember, a regular kiss is okay too, if your partner is not up for le francais!

Before the Kiss



1. Get your lips in proper kissing order. The most kissable lips are smooth and sweet, not dry, chapped and tense. The guidelines in How to Get Kissable Lips will help both men and women make their lips look more attractive and inviting. Here are the basics:

* Exfoliate your lips with sugar to make them soft.
* Moisturize your lips to keep them soft.
* Relax your lips by parting them ever so slightly.

2. Look inviting and approachable! You might not realize that you've giving off a "leave me alone" vibe, so read up on How to Look Approachable. Uncross those arms, keep your hands away from your face, make eye contact, and smile! Similarly, read his or her body language - is this person into you? Or do they seem uncomfortable?

3.Break the "touch barrier." Touch the person lightly on the arm or shoulder when you're talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don't make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. (Guys, you may want to read How to Touch a Girl for more ideas on how to break the touch barrier without overstepping boundaries.) If everything is going well, try kissing the person on the cheek. If you find your lips near their ear (like if you're hugging someone from behind, or whispering something to them) go in for a gentle kiss on the cheek and see how they respond.






4.Look at their lips. Make eye contact and then move your gaze briefly down to the person's lips. Then move your eyes back up to meet theirs and smile demurely. You don't have to be really obvious about it. Many people will take the hint, especially if they've read one of the many articles that lists this as a sign that a person wants to kiss or be kissed.



5.Approach for the kiss. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position—you just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact.


The Gentle Lip Lock

1. As your lips make contact with theirs, pucker them slightly and close your eyes. If you "overpucker" your lips will become tense, which is better for the platonic peck (described below), not for romance.
2.Kiss your partner's upper or lower lip gently, then pull away slightly. Put about an inch or 3 cm between you and your partner's lips.
3. Open your eyes. Once your gaze meets theirs, smile a little and decide whether or not to go for another kiss. If things are going well, move on to the next step. Or if one or both of you think that's enough for today, pull away, smile, and shift your gaze elsewhere.
4. Kiss your partner's upper or lower lip again, but this time part your lips so that their lip goes between yours. Apply a little bit of pressure closing your lips as you pull away. You can practice on the length of your finger to get an idea for how much pressure to apply. You can also gently pinch one of your lips between your index finger and thumb to see how it feels to have someone kiss you in this way.
5. Switch to the other lip. If you were kissing their uppper lip, now go to their lower lip, and vice versa. Ideally, as you kiss someone's upper lip, they're kissing your lower lip, and vice versa, and you can go on like this for quite some time, alternating with closed lip kisses.



The French Kiss

Detailed instructions available at the full wikiHow on how to French kiss

1. As you are locking and re-locking lips, brush your tongue against your partner's lips ever so slightly. This should make it clear that you want to French kiss. If your partner's tongue does not respond in like fashion or if they pull away, you will have to save the French kiss for another time when you are both ready.
2. Slowly open your mouth a little bit more and gently push your tongue a little farther into their mouth until the tip of your tongue meets the tip of theirs. Let your tongues brush against each other briefly and gently and then pull it away, back into your own mouth.
3. Close your mouth a little (not all the way) and open it again to start another kiss. This time you can push your tongue a little further into your partner's mouth, so that more of it brushes against theirs.
4.
For a passionate kiss: Put your hand(s) on your partner's face, neck, or hair and hold them close as your tongues meet. Gently suck or nibble on their lips here and there. Breathe deeply. Kiss the person like you just can't get enough of them, and like you might never get to kiss them again.
5. Finish off a French kiss with a little lip locking (as described in the previous section) or continue kissing, in which case you'll want to read the tips in How to Make Out.


The Platonic Peck

1. Turn your head before you lean in. If you want to kiss someone on the cheek, and that someone is at risk of misinterpreting your intentions, make it clear that you're not going for the mouth by turning your head off to the side before you lean in.
2. Pucker your lips more tightly than you would for a romantic kiss. To know if you're puckering your lips correctly, kiss in the air. How loud is the kissing noise? It should be a clearly audible "pop" of your lips as you part them while sucking air in. A romantic kiss will barely make this noise because your lips are much more relaxed.
3. Keep it brief. The amount of time your lips spend on the other person's cheek or lips should be limited to whatever it takes to make that kissing noise described in the previous step - nothing more. If your lips linger, it won't seem so platonic. In some settings, it might be appropriate to not make any lip to skin contact at all; read up on How to Air Kiss.


Common Kissing Issues

* The bad kisser. So that new guy or girl in your life is just perfect. Kind, caring, fun, exciting--he or she has it all. Except... Oh, what a terrible kisser! Luckily, most bad kissers can become good kissers if you have a little patience, tact, and courage. Check out How to Deal With a Bad Kisser.
* Kissing someone who's much taller or shorter than you. Got a sore neck from looking up at your partner? Or are you always hunching so you can see eye to eye? Don't fret. There's a way to pull this off. Read How to Kiss Somebody Who Is a Different Height.
* Got braces? Here are a few precautions: How to Kiss With Braces


Tips

* Live in the moment. You will not kiss as well if your mind is somewhere else. For example, when kissing, try to avoid thoughts like "What is he/she thinking about?", "Do I look good tonight?", or anything else. Don't be too self-conscious, or have ANY thoughts outside the kiss if you can help it. Instead, concentrate on the way the other person's lips feel against yours.